I often find folks “pissed off” at life, parents, and everyone. who come to my office. They cannot find the cause. One person hated her mother. When we did the therapy we found that her mother tried to abort her but botched up the abortion. We discovered that she acquired this hatred because she saw…
When the fear of always being alone, or left by the people you love begins to interfere with your life, it could be fear of abandonment. Many people suffer from some form of abandonment issues, whether it is something they recognize or not. Insecurity associated with a fear of abandonment can ruin relationships, create distance…
Most relationship problems stem from abandonment wounds. It is not possible to grow up in our society without some abandonment wounds. When we are deeply wounded at a young age, we cannot handle the pain, so we find ways to dissociate from the intense feelings. Then, later in life, especially when we fall in love,…