“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.” – Sophocles, 496-406 B.C. You’ve been told by teachers, counselors, relationship experts, self help experts, or religion, that you should at least love your family, friends, and others who are important to you. Though you and I know, it’s…
If you do, start learning how to be Interdependent. That is how to give your power away in conscious, healthy ways, because your self-worth is no longer dependent on outside sources. Understand that anytime we care abut somebody or something we give away some power over our feelings. It is impossible to love with giving…
Most relationship problems stem from abandonment wounds. It is not possible to grow up in our society without some abandonment wounds. When we are deeply wounded at a young age, we cannot handle the pain, so we find ways to dissociate from the intense feelings. Then, later in life, especially when we fall in love,…