Most relationship problems stem from abandonment wounds. It is not possible to grow up in our society without some abandonment wounds. When we are deeply wounded at a young age, we cannot handle the pain, so we find ways to dissociate from the intense feelings. Then, later in life, especially when we fall in love,…
“Gestalt perception – a structure, configuration, or pattern of physical, biological, or psychological phenomena so integrated as to constitute a functional unit with properties not derivable by summation of its parts.”
We may like to think that the people in our lives are well-adjusted, happy, healthy minded individuals. We sometimes realize that it just isn’t so. Truth be told, the emotionally immature person has low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence and consequently feels insecure. To counter these feelings of insecurity, they will spend a large proportion…