DO YOU CHOOSE UNTRUSTWORTHY PEOPLE TO TRUST? UNDEPENDABLE PEOPLE TO DEPEND ON? UNAVAILABLE PEOPLE TO LOVE?

If you do, start learning how to be Interdependent.  That is how to give your power away in conscious, healthy ways, because your self-worth is no longer dependent on outside sources.  Understand that anytime we care abut somebody or something we give away some power over our feelings.  It is impossible to love with giving…

Healing The Abandonment Wounds

Most relationship problems stem from abandonment wounds.  It is not possible to grow up in our society without some abandonment wounds. When we are deeply wounded at a young age, we cannot handle the pain, so we find ways to dissociate from the intense feelings. Then, later in life, especially when we fall in love,…