Just wish someone had told me! Commitmentphobia?

By DrBev | Published: May 31, 2013

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DrBev ‘Emotions R Us’
There are women and men who cannot love someone outside of their immediate family. And, they feel unstable when emotions for another person rise within their hearts. They may want a relationship, but they are too scared to make a commitment. Additionally, their own negative self-beliefs about commitment, love and relationships will guarantee that any relationship won’t last. They suffer from commitmentphobia and a deep fear of intimacy. Really? Commitmentphobia? Keep reading…

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Thank You Beautiful: Abandonment! I Will Love Again.

By DrBev | Published: April 17, 2013

After Beautiful left me, told me we were over I was devastated. How could this be happening to me, again? I knew she said she was unhappy with our relationship. I knew something was going on but I could not put my finger on it. Beautiful, nagged me that I did not listen to or understand, appreciate, value or showed her enough love and affection, except when I wanted sex. I did not understand, we just did not make sense. I loved her. Things between us would get emotionally crazy between us after a period of closeness or sex. Beautiful, said the relationship felt lonely, even with me by her side, no intimacy or companionship. Something was missing. Read more...»

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Relationships: Denial, Lies and Betrayal, oh no!

By DrBev | Published: March 23, 2013

“Denial may be worn like a cloak to hide a fear of intimacy or feelings of vulnerability.”~~ In DrBev’s World.  Repeated experiences of   denial, lies, and betrayal continue in our emotional life when we are in denial about our lack of awareness of  self-sabotaging behaviors.  “Our nature is to avoid emotional pain.”  We don’t want to be in emotional pain and discomfort.  A good reason ‘why’ ‘emotional pain’ is sometimes uncomfortable because taking action to change may not always feel good.

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